Three mistakes to avoid in 2020 if you want to read more, faster and better.
“If you are not inspired by a book, drop it. Finishing a book is nowhere near as important as actually learning and gaining from it.” – Jay Shetty
You certainly know many reasons why reading is so important. But have you identified your own reasons why you should read or why you are reading books?
Do you read a book because someone
said so or you read because you want to know something specific in a subject or
topic that interests you?
How can you read better? Reading better
is about trying different methods or techniques of reading until you find that
which resonates with you.
What makes a successful reader? Is that
determined by how many books you have finished in a month or a year or vs how
much information you gained or learned for that book?
Reading is a fun and enjoyable activity
or skill when done correctly. Apparently, there are three biggest mistakes that
many people make about reading, hence they don’t get better or successful at
it.
1. They
think books need to be read from cover to cover
Let’s face it, some books are terribly written
and make you feel frustrated instead of enjoying them, while others are classics, written
by authors who lived way ahead of their time. Jay Shetty capped it best when he
said “If you are not inspired by a book, drop it. Finishing a book is nowhere
near as important as actually learning and gaining from it.”
The most important thing is that you
need to know why you are reading a specific book. Primarily, says Philosopher
Newell Dwight Hillis “books are to be read for information and mental strength.
The hunger of the body for bread and fruit is not more real than the hunger of
intellect for facts and principles.”
2. They
make reading all about willpower, instead of love power.
If you are dragging yourself on every word,
struggling through every page and rushing so that you can finish the book, it
means you are relying on your willpower, Instead of love power. Love power
means you are engaged and engrossed in a book, you are motivated and inspired
as you are reading and at the same time, grasping great ideas, concepts and
stories that expand your horizons.
Sometimes, you would enjoy a book to a
point of getting lost in thoughts and that’s how other people escape the real
world - through reading. Only books that activate your love power are to be
read from cover to cover because you gain more from them and become eager to
share with others what you have learned.
3. They
don’t schedule time to read daily and only read when they feel like it.
Whatever skill you want to be good at; practice
and self-discipline goes a long way. If you want to be a great author, schedule
time either 45 minutes or an hour a day to write. It’s no different with
reading. In fact, reading is a prerequisite for writing, you cannot write if
you don’t read simply because you don’t have the tools or capacity to do so.
If you feel more groove in the morning
than in the evening when you are reading, then schedule at least 30 minutes as
part of your morning routine to read. The more you do it, it becomes a habit
and the better you get at it.
Now that you are aware of these
mistakes, the next step is to ask yourself, what topic is of great interest for
you and want to know more about, instead of asking what book should I read next?
Don’t read a book because someone told you so, unless you asked for
recommendations on a specific subject you want to venture into.
This is easy for me to do because as a
blogger, I decide ahead of time which topic I will be focusing on; let’s say,
for the month of February, I chose communication as my topic of interest. Therefore,
I will read books that talks about communication for the whole month.
Other topics of interest that I read
and write about include leadership, health, or any that is related to
self-development.
Generally, people read for different reasons
and you certainly know yours. For instance, Mark Zuckerberg says he reads books
to learn and educate himself about different cultures and backgrounds. Bill
Gates read about 50 books a year, mainly business, health, engineering and
diseases while Oprah Winfrey calls reading her personal path to freedom.
The act of reading avidly improves
vocabulary - the broader your vocabulary, the better your diction. With
impeccable diction, elocution skyrocket and consequently one become articulate
and assertive.
When you know why you want to read and
have identified your topic of interest, following these three simple tips will
help you read more, better and faster in 2020.
a)
Find
the Ted talk or YouTube video of any book that you find to be relevant to your
chosen topic, this will help you to get principles and ideas of that book
including its essence in less than 15 minutes. After watching that video, it
will be easy to decide whether the book is worth your time or not.
b)
Look
at the table of content and highlight key chapters and areas you really want to
dive into. You don’t have to read every chapter, focus only on those that
interest you. Unless you find all the chapters relevant and fascinating to you,
then you can read the whole book, cover to cover.
Ensure that you read the introduction and
the first chapter because most authors tell you how to read a book in the
introduction or first chapter. Even within a chapter, you can skip to subheadings
and divisions that you find inspiring and thought provoking.
c)
To
read faster, use your finger as a guide to read at your own pace and improve
with time. Jay Shetty says we need to try and “Focus more on stronger words in
a sentence, you can read the most important 4 – 6 words in a 12-word paragraph
and still extrapolate the same meaning."
In addition, you can decide to read the
first and last three lines of a paragraph, to contextualize whether you want to
read that paragraph or not. Some authors put so much effort at the beginning
and end of a paragraph in trying to highlight central ideas of the entire
chapter.
Most of us have this wrong fixation or
propensity to read every word in every page and rush through to finish a book
without getting anything of value from it. Consequently, we fail to explain to
the next person what was the book all about and we end up not being fulfilled
and inspired to read anymore.
After finishing each chapter, Jay
Shetty proposes the use of the 3-S
formula in order to gain more from a book.
i.
Write
down a Story that inspired you or
moved you.
ii.
Write
down a Statistics that you thought
blew your mind
iii.
Make
a note of something you want to Share
with someone else
To conclude, I will hand over to these
great authors to tell you about the joys and importance of reading, maybe you
can relate to some of their sentiments.
“Within the covers of a single book are
ideas that, if acted upon, have the power to rescript every part of your life.
Few things are as smart as investing in becoming a better thinker and
developing a stronger mind.” - Newell
Dwight Hillis
"Relentless learning is one of the main
traits of an open and powerful person. And an obsessive and on-going
self-education is one of the greatest survival tactics to go through turbulent
times. The best people always seem to have the biggest libraries.” Robin Sharma
“Thank God for books, cheering our
solitude, soothing our sickness, refining our passions and out of defeat
leading us to victory.” - Newell Dwight Hillis
Thanks mganam for this article, I really wanted to hear this as the year start. I want to start on a high note as well mganam, I have learnt few words as well from this blog(meaning and how to use them appropriate)
ReplyDeleteengrossed
avidly
diction
assertive
impeccable
extrapolate
contextualize
solitude
It's a pleasure mnganam, this is a beauty of reading..the more we read, the more we learn new words and how to use them in a sentence. This helps to improve our vocabulary and our writing or communication skills in general. And thank you for the feedback mnganam
DeleteThanks mganam I always find myself engrossed in this blog :)
DeleteI love knowing how does the human anatomy function, so from work am going to buy a book based on this topics lol. I tried this nton nton books but hey kuyabhala mganam
DeleteGo for it and let me know how it goes, good luck :)
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